What Does the Bible Have to Say About Patience?

Posted on January 25, 2013 by farmerjaneusa

Situations, people, and things can cause us to lose our patience.  We want things when we want things.  Sometimes a relationship, personal or professional can be at risk.  Often we want to blame others, whether it’s their fault or not, because we don’t want to lose face or be shamed.  Once we start blaming it’s often harder to turn that train around, especially when it’s headed toward an apology and reparations.

In a world of instant everything and social media that prompts externalizing our every passing thought, it is even more important to remember to take a deep breath and reflect on our thoughts and the root of our emotions.  Why be patient when we can keep push push pushing?  It is possible to go with the flow and still use sound judgment; and perhaps we won’t get what we want, but we will get what God knows we need.

Patience does have its rewards.  Meditating over Bible verses can help remove us from wallowing in negativity and gain a fresh perspective.

 

Here are some verses to get you started:

But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.  –Isaiah 40:31

Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath: For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.  –James 1:19-20

Now we exhort you, brethren, warn them that are unruly, comfort the feebleminded, support the weak, be patient toward all men.  –1 Thessalonians 5:14

Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.  –Psalms 46:10

And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.  –Galatians 6:9

Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;  Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.  –Colossians 3:12-13

 

 

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Health Benefits of Living in Sunny Florida

Posted on January 24, 2013 by farmerjaneusa

It’s no mystery that living in a sunny warm location can be a mood boosting experience.  If you’re already living in a place like Florida you may take it for granted, but spend a long cold winter in Minneapolis or Chicago and then take a vacation down South for a week and you’ll be dreading the return trip, if for no other reason than that carefree feeling of not having to bundle up before opening the door to face the assault of that biting chilly air!

Much research has been done on the effect of sunlight on emotional health.  Sure the sun still shines in winter, but not many people are going to brave the weather to spend as much time out of doors if they have to risk negative environmental exposure.  When it’s pleasant outside year round you’re probably going to find excuses to be outside, even if it’s reading a book under an umbrella.  You don’t have to risk skin cancer to enjoy the mood boosting properties of the sun; just being out in the ambient indirect rays is beneficial.

If the weather is Jensen Beach, Floridagetting to you, why not make the move permanent?  There are plenty of opportunities and people happy to help make the transition easier.  There are also many wonderful safe cities close to the beach and fun recreational areas, but without the downsides that most in the Northern climates associate with traditional urban and suburban areas.

There is one city in Florida you might want to check out.  It’s close to the beach, has excellent fishing spots and a good reputation for being affordable and safe.  There are plenty of new homes in Jensen Beach, Florida!  Check them out and give your real estate agent a call.

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What is the Deal with Ormus? David Hudson: One Man’s Journey of Ormus Discovery

Posted on January 23, 2013 by farmerjaneusa

If you’ve been wondering what the fuss is all about with ormus, this is a great video to begin your journey.  David Hudson discovered ormus or as he calls it ORME, quite by accident.  This video is a first hand account of his journey.  It is available on YouTube in 7 parts.

Yes it is long, but one thing you must learn if you are going to take ormus seriously is to be patient.  Ormus is mystical, it doesn’t seem to follow the rules to which you may be accustomed.  There are some who say it will absorb the energy, the thoughts and emotions even, of everything around it.  It is the fusion of science and spirit.  The process of learning is the process of making.  It is a journey, much like the journey of great martial art warriors.

You can buy ormus and not really understand what it does or how it is made, but I think there is danger in this.  If you want to swallow the ormus and have it change you it’s like saying to the world “change me”, well change what and how?  A dangerous wish indeed.  Even if you have preconceived notions about what you want or think it will do, is that what the ormus you are consuming has been programmed to do?  Even with the most high quality manufacturers, consuming ormus from strangers is much like eating out.  Nothing can take the place of a home cooked meal prepared with love.

When you make ormus you should do it with purpose and think on your intentions.  But… before you begin it is best to learn as much about it as you can.  Get to know your lover so you can appreciate the special qualities of the love they have to share.  Be love and desire love and ormus will amplify those feelings, sending them out from you and returning them to you.  Some associate manna of the Bible with ormus or say that it is ormus or contained high concentrations of ormus.  Regardless of what it was, manna was a life sustaining gift from God to His people.  Ormus is a gracious gift from God if you are accepting of the grace of God.  If you try to remove God from the process and from the experience you are leaving room for… other things.

During your journey I would highly suggest that you allow yourself to submit to God and work to be closer to Him, especially by reading the Bible and studying commentaries and translation, as well as seeking out true prophets that are filled with the Holy Spirit as they deliver their sermons.  Everyday ask for, be thankful for and use the gift of discernment.  Always keep Jesus, YOUR saviour utmost in your mind.  Most of all live in a state of perpetual gratitude, charity and wonderment while keeping  your wits about you and using sound judgment.  All is not wonderful in this world and if you turn a blind eye to the darkness, when it appears as light you may not know the difference.  You do not have to focus on the darkness, but be aware of it and accept that it exists.

When you do get to the point of preparing ormus for consumption, please seek out and a guide to laboratory procedures, which includes keeping a lab book and heeding safety procedures.

I wish you well on your journey and God bless you and yours.

 

Matthew 5:13-16 (KJV)

13 Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men.

14 Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.

15 Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.

16 Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.

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The Difference Between TENS (Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation) and EMS (Electro Muscle Stimulation)

Posted on January 20, 2013 by farmerjaneusa

TENS (Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation) is the use of electrical stimulation on the nerves with the desired outcome of short-term or long-term relief of chronic and acute pain.  Electrodes are attached to the body with several adhesive pads.  Modern units are portable and available for in home use and larger units can be found in Chiropractic and Physical Therapy offices.  Most units can modulate pulse width and frequency as well as intensity.  There are instances where the electrodes should not be applied such as directly over the spine, on the chest, on the front of the neck, on irritated or numb skin, in the vicinity of cancerous tissue and near pacemakers and near a developing fetus.

EMS (Electro Muscle Stimulation) serves a different purpose than TENS.  EMS is also known as NMES (Neuromuscular Electrical Stimulation) or simply electromyostimulation.  EMS machines are used primarily for muscle toning as well as for therapeutic purposes.  Electrodes are applied to the skin with adhesive pads, much like a TENS device.  EMS can be used to prevent muscle atrophy in instances of injury, relaxation of muscle spasms, muscle re-education and on calf muscles to prevent venous thrombosis after surgery.  Devices used by the consumer in home are commonly used to tone muscles for cosmetic reasons or to prompt physical activity by providing a head start in muscle toning and strengthening.  Devices are also commonly used in the training program of professional atheletes.

Although these machines use electrical stimulation of the body, they focus on different goals and body systems and their designs and programming are different. TENS therapy should not cause muscle contraction during use and the purpose of the EMS is to cause muscle contraction.  Both machines are regulated by the FDA in the United States.

 

Ready to purchase one of these machines? Visit LGMedSupply Online, which offers both TENS Units and Muscle Stimulators as well as Ultrasound Units for pain relief and rehabilitation.  They also have a combination unit, the LG-TEC Dual Combo TENS Unit and Muscle Stimulator for both muscle toning and muscle pain rehabilitation.  You can learn more about LGMedSupply at the online customer blog.

 

 

 

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Breaching the Celebrity Barrier in Business Networking Through Social Media

Posted on October 4, 2012 by farmerjaneusa

When you’ve got something to say and need to connect the right people together sometimes there are barriers. There are plenty of us that get star struck and just want the opportunity to say hello and thank those motivational athletes, musicians, actors and others in the public eye. There’s a time and a place for that. But then there’s practicality, and that means daunting barriers held in place that allow “stars” to live a somewhat normal and unencumbered life. How many times have you been working on a truly awesome positive constructive real world project only to feel it was ultimately pie-in-the-sky because it involved someone unreachable to you? It seems like you always need to know someone who knows someone, and then there’s hoping that they simply have enough few precious minutes to hear you out even if contact is theoretically possible.

I once came across a group that went by the “5 Degrees of Kevin Bacon” principle. If you knew someone that knew someone that was in that realm of Hollywood, or just so famous they needed to have an unlisted number and wear sunglasses to go to the grocery store, well maybe you could use that connection to help people that wanted to get in touch with them so they could help something good happen on this planet. I liked the idea. I figured it was a shot in the dark, but at least they were exploring the possibilities.

Maybe meeting a certain actor is your closest cousin’s dying wish. Perhaps you have been working on a script for the past 3 years and the last 50 people that read it have been absolutely pushing you to get it out there. Certainly you know the perfect celebrity that absolutely needs to be MC’ing your charity event and you just happen to know they are passionate for the same cause as you and it just so happens to be taking place at a location you already know they will be.

Sure, it’s worth a shot to see if someone knows someone and ask around. But now there’s something that has some potential. It’s called Celebstir. It’s a chance to connect with celebrities of all kinds, even athletes, comedians and public speakers – any kind of person that puts themselves in the public eye to entertain and enlighten.

And if you think you are that kind of guy or gal? Well you have just as much an opportunity to promote yourself on Celebstir as anyone else.

Want to video chat with a celebrity? Here’s your chance to ask if they’ll meet with your cousin, MC your charity event or even throw out the first ball at your son’s little league game for his birthday. You never know who might end up on Celebstir or what might happen if you just sign up.

Here’s my wishlist for what Celebstir will allow the general public to do:

  • Express their opinion about and to their favorite celebrities
  • Allow everyone to show their gratitude to their entertainers
  • Present ideas to the right people
  • Ask for opinions and tips from those that motivate
  • Get the ball rolling on contructive projects
  • Enlist the help of celebrities for a worthy cause
  • Connect the right people together to make good things happen in this world

One thing’s for certain, you will never get what you say you’re hoping for if you don’t dream big and make the effort!

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The Insecurity of Wrongful Dismissal by Your Former Employer and Why You Shouldn’t Let it Stop You from Consulting an Employment Lawyer

Posted on June 8, 2012 by farmerjaneusa

It’s not something you want to think about.  In fact you’ve probably been darting this issue or putting off making “that” call.  You were dismissed for what appears on paper to be something that is your fault and nothing but your fault.  After the initial anger subsided you were left with feelings of emotional pain and distress;  left wondering about the future, if you can even handle putting your heart into your work at a new job, only to be tossed out like garbage unexpectedly, again.

Someone just told you that you failed.  You were wrong.  No matter what words were typed on that ugly piece of paper, you read:  you are an irresponsible person.  It’s all your fault.  You were selfish and all your work counts for nothing.  But you came into work everyday on time;  you stayed to work late when other people skipped off home to be with their family or go to the bar;  you sacrificed your time away from your family and your life with a desire that your boss will think well of you and hopefully remember you when it comes time to evaluate your performance.  All this so that next year, life for you and your family might be a little easier with a few extra hundred or thousand dollars in your pocket.

You thought you were doing well.  You thought you were being a good, honest, hardworking employee.  But now here you are hurt, starting to feel despair, scrambling to pay your bills and that doubt keeps creeping up, you wonder if you really are that less than worthless person that hurt your fellow employees by being a destructive force or dead weight by not being exactly whatever unknown unspoken expectation they now say you were supposed to be or perform, after the fact.

Employers have certain responsibilities.   It’s not just you.  So why do you feel as if you’ve just wasted years of your life, only to be made to feel like you were the one who was wrong, instead of the one who was wronged?   You want to do what’s right, but you worry about dragging down your fellow employees, risking your friends’ careers, and even those in middle management that didn’t do anything to you (and at times helped you navigate the tricky workplace waters when they didn’t have to).   After all, it was just that one person that you always felt was “out to get you”.  You don’t want to hurt your former fellow employees after all, supposedly again.

Not only the paycheck, but workplace interactions, allow a sense of security in our lives. However, the workplace can also be fraught with legalities that make it troublesome for both employers and employees.  Just look at what has been running through your mind, awful doubts about yourself that you never would have thought you would allow yourself to think.  Deep down you know it’s not true, but in the meantime you have to deal with the reality of taking care of your responsibilities, all the while wondering if you have the energy or the time or the wherewithal to fight back, to get what is rightfully yours, whatever that might be.  An employment lawyer is there to assist you with a wide range of difficult employment law issues, including but certainly not limited to wrongful termination.

Approaching a lawyer is not a big deal.   It is always up to you, at any point, on what actions you want to move forward with.   Making an appointment is not making a commitment to whatever nightmarish fight your imagination might be serving up.   While you are trying to piece together your life, take time out to talk to a lawyer.  They are there to explore your options and discuss your fears. They are someone you can ask those tough personal questions that have been running through you mind.

The legal system is complicated and ever changing.  That’s why lawyers and their supportive team educate themselves – to help you, so that you can concentrate on moving on with your life, and not banging your head against the wall at 2AM trying to understand employment law when you know you should be getting your rest.

You are not a bad employee, irresponsible person or dead weight.  You were simply caught in a web of office politics and the agenda of someone with their own issues.  You are a good person that deserves a talented employment lawyer to fight for your rights.

Fear and anger have their uses, they can be constructive, they are there to prompt you into action.  If you don’t take the next step you’ll always wonder what could have been. Sleep well tonight, knowing you’ll make that call.   As for any future legal battles, you’ll cross that bridge when you get to it.  Have faith and keep looking for that window God left open for you when the door closed.

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Yovia is a Rising Star in Social Media

Posted on December 12, 2011 by farmerjaneusa

I’m really loving Yovia.com and I’ve just gotten started!

I was introduced to the website when searching for freebies. They have many goodies that they are giving away, mostly to help promote their site; others from Yovia sponsers. I’ve requested everything from jar openers to stuffed animals. All you have to do is provide your shipping information! Today I was greeted with an email letting me know that the freebies I ordered about a month ago will be shipping just in time for the holidays.

Their website is in beta right now, but appears to be functioning just fine. It has a clean look and an organized feel. It’s also not crowded up with a bunch of flashing ads for iffy websites and I have yet to even notice a Google Advertisement. I get the feeling they have some more features they want to add, but so far navigation is fairly intuitive.

Besides having lots of free stuff for the asking, they provide a place to make wishes for things you need or need help with, and you can elect to remain anonymous. (Name and/or email address is optional and they provide you with one simple box to write in, so there’s no pressure for the name of your first born or tax information or anything crazy like that.)

Yovia also provides you with a free WordPress based blog and allows you to have more than one, or none at all. They just ask that you keep it clean and have a “take what you want, but eat what you take” mentality. I just connected my facebook account so that I can participate in money making opportunities, most of them between .50-1.00 for simple activities like following a brand on Twitter or liking a facebook page and making a relevant comment. I also spied a 4.00 opportunity for writing an article, which I will be checking out shortly. They consider their bloggers “contributors” and one of their primary goals is to connect influencers with branded discussions and ignite social media. In the process a whole new economy is created.

With the wash of various flavors of social media sites out there, it takes a lot to grab my attention and impress me. In this case it took about a month for me to really start poking around the website, but they have my attention now and this one might just be a keeper if they decide to keep it real.

There’s more than meets the eye with this website, and I have just started cracking away at the edges. If you’re ready to join, be sure to connect with me and let me know what convinced you to give Yovia a try!

 

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Stress Free Christmas Present Shopping – How to Buy for the Hard to Buy

Posted on December 6, 2011 by farmerjaneusa

Has there been a growing nervous feeling in your gut every time your mind begins spinning in circles trying to dream up the perfect Christmas present for the hard to buy? They say it’s the thought that counts, but it takes more than just buying anything at all, it’s that you made the effort to find that exact special something. If you look at gift giving from a different perspective, it really doesn’t take much effort to select an appreciated gift, if you are willing to go beyond sales circulars and expectations.

If you’re in a hurry, I’ll give you a shortcut. One method to buying a gift is to investigate an aspect of that person’s life and then see what’s out there on the market, something that would compliment what they already have. Often you can find something they might already own, but that doesn’t always mean they don’t want more, a replacement or an upgrade! Perhaps the lady in your life really enjoys a relaxing bath. If you do a cursory examination of her bathroom you’ll have a good idea of what she doesn’t have and can work from there. A modest under $20 dollar gift might be underwater bathtub lights or a novelty bath pillow. Maybe the guy in your life takes pride in his car. A quick inspection of his garage might lead you to realize he needs a digital compass for car.

There are three basic ways to go about finding the perfect gift, even if the recipient is difficult to please or appears to have everything: you can get to know the person better by engaging them in conversation about their interests, on a regular basis; you can pay attention to their surroundings and activities over a period of time; and you can simply take a hint.

Sometimes it’s a matter of getting to know your giftee a little bit better. This requires regular long-term research. Take notes throughout the year – actually write it down and tuck it away in a safe place such as your wallet. When they get excited about something, ask general guiding questions like “so what would make it better?” or “so which one do you prefer?” or perhaps “are you looking forward to the new version/edition/upgrade?”

If you live with them or hang out at their house, check out what magazines and catalogs appear more worn than others. You can also select a hobby where the evidence is obvious, something that requires a variety of tools and reference guides, such as metal detecting, ghost hunting or skateboarding. If for instance they are an automobile enthusiast, you may notice they complain every so often about leaving their car out in the sun and precipitation. You might want to work into the conversation the topic of an auto canopy and see their reaction. If you notice they like to venture off the beaten path and explore, you might want to research the best automotive digital compass you can find.

The last tactic to gift giving is to figure out if you have a hint dropper on your list. Some only drop subtle hints around the holiday season, so pay attention and look for corresponding evidence that you were actually picking up on a hint. “I like dogs” doesn’t always mean they were trying to get you to buy one for them. You can also study what they pick up and play with at the store. Some hint droppers will do this on purpose, when they know you are watching, as this is easier for them than communicating verbally.

Breathe. Relax. Seek to obtain an attitude of gratitude. Get to know the people who are important in your life. Nothing takes the place of being an attentive friend or family member. Perhaps the holiday is  about a release of the accumulation of our thoughts, and it shows in the gifts we give.  Appreciate those close to you and the selection of the perfect gift will come more naturally.

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Finding an Attorney That Caters to Military Men Facing Divorce

Posted on October 2, 2011 by farmerjaneusa

When you are a man going through the tough times of a divorce, while also serving in the military, you definitely need a law firm you can trust to get the job done right, stay on top of your case and all the while keep in mind what’s most important – family.

Divorce can get complicated, and if you let it, it can help to put your whole life on hold, making you bitter.  If you are a man serving in the military, it can serve to distract you from your duties if you don’t feel confident your lawyer is able to do the best for you, every step of the way, for the best possible outcome.   Who needs all that worry?

Everyone knows lawyers stick together, but as negative as that sounds on the surface, also consider the cream floats to the top.  A respectable law firm, such as cordell & cordell  reviews their attorneys on a regular basis to insure integrity and trust in-house and with clients and the nearby community.  You can even view their records online!

Only those who wish to remain honest and strive for excellence will be found at such law firms.  This also encourages a supportive work environment, as each attorney helps form a complete picture of what a potential client sees.

There are some other good qualities to look for in a law firm.  One is the presence of a checks and balances to ensure you are satisfied with the progress of your case.  Ask if there is someone to talk to besides your attorney if you are worried he or she is doing everything they can for you or if you have questions that don’t quite stack up to a formal paid appointment.  Also, look out for lawyers that want to settle.  You have a right to a trial, and you have to ask yourself why someone might really want to persuade you to settle.  Some soldier on military boatlawyers will also provide a discount to those who have served in the military, so be sure to ask!

As a man in the military, the last thing you need is a messy mismanaged divorce to knock you  off-track.  You shouldn’t have to worry about whether your lawyer did everything he could now, so in the future you’ll have a chance at having a good relationship with your kids, or you don’t get stuck with unreasonable alimony or child support that keeps you from reaching your long-term goals and dreams of being a better man, and being the kind of father your children can look up to.  Find a responsible and aggressive law firm so you can get back to living your dreams.

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Enjoy Family Time Outdoors with Low Maintenance Eco-Friendly Yard Furniture

Posted on September 21, 2011 by farmerjaneusa

When you pay your taxes, mortgage or rent, you are not just paying for the right to have a place to keep your stuff, or lay down your head, or an investment in your future. Your home is your castle – where you get things done and keep your treasures safe. Likewise, your yard should be your sanctuary – a place to relax and get away, if even for a few precious moments, from those responsibilities and stressors that seem to constantly nag at you.

Don’t wait for a vacation; create a place to spend regular family time outdoors. Get away from the complications of life by retreating into your own backyard. Take time to be grateful for the simple pleasures of life, whether you watch the kids play or watch the sun set. Have the courage to turn off the cellphones, leave the laptops charging and turn off the barrage of media outlets.

For many families the only regular family time is meal time. When the weather is pleasurable, make it a habit of eating al fresco, like at those roadside scenic views with Picnic Tables, far away from the temptations of electronic distractions. Even if you cook indoors, carrying your food and supplies outside is not a big deal when you weigh the benefits. If you don’t have any, invest in some protective food cover screens, serving trays and perhaps even a good old fashioned picnic basket. Have everyone pitch in and help with preparations and clean up. It will make little ones feel needed and responsible and be one more thing to bond your family together. Besides, you’ll have fewer crumbs to sweep when it’s time to tidy up.

With so many distractions to keep you and your kids separated, you may want to find other reasons to bring your family together in your own backyard. Do you treasure those afternoons at the playground, kicking back on one of those traditional Park Benches watching your kids being carefree on the playground? Relive those precious moments in your own backyard, at your leisure, without spending a dime on gas or wasting time traveling. If you haven’t shopped around in awhile, you’ll find playground equipment has come a long way, are generally easy to assemble and safer than ever before. There are also many pieces made from long lasting environmentally friendly materials.

No outdoor oasis is complete without a few ultra-comfortable Adirondack chairs. If you are only going to invest in one or two pieces of yard furniture, an Adirondack can be that place where you can close your eyes and remember those times you spent out of doors, when you felt most at peace, when you had the most joy in your heart, and ask yourself what it was about those locations that added to your happiness. From there you can begin to rethink your yard into a sanctuary personalized just for you. Adirondack chairs are one of the most popular pieces of yard and deck furniture for good reason. Their sturdy design, wide arms and sloped back let you enjoy the view or just kick back. If you buy one made from long lasting recycled materials, you can feel good about saving a few trees as well.

There’s no need to take out a loan for major improvements. To start, you can create an oasis with a few simple pieces of sturdy outdoor furniture. If you are concerned about doing your part for the environment, you can have the best of both worlds by buying eco-friendly yard furniture that is also long lasting and low maintenance.

With some planning you can transform that place you only think of as a source of weekend chores into a low maintenance daily hideaway. Take the time to make a few improvements based on your own tastes and pleasures; it’s a small investment for such a priceless gift to yourself and your family.

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